Can two hearts beat as one. . ?

Everyday, ppl get together or/and break up. .
We tend to ask. . .
"Can two hearts beat as one?"

When I see a couple both say "I do", I always think to myself. .
"What made them so sure?"
Is it just a feeling?
Well, feelings can change over time aye. .
Is it because of love?
Love is not forever tooo. .

I may be a pessimist but hey, that's life!!
Life can be a big B !
One can say I love u "forever". .
But what happens when their "forever" is over?
There would be more broken-hearted ppl in this world, aye. .?

Soooooooooo, can ppl really compromise with each other and understand each other inside out?
I'm sure after hanging out a lot and being in a long relationship, ppl would know their partner's habits, how they do stuff, and how they think. .

BUT. .
Both partners have been brought up in a different way. .
Both partners have things they like when the other doesn't
Both partners have own views and sometimes it's against the view of the other. .
Both partners had different ways of living their life before they decided to get together. .

So, can both parties really compromise?
Are both parties really willing to share their lives with one another?

Personally, I think it's imperative that both parties incorporate the life of two into one. .
If they think that "hey. . that's the way I've lived so don't come into my life and change it". .
Then, they're not ready to open their life to their partner. .

Why be in a relationship when u're not willing to make two lives into one?
It's just going to be a selfish relationship, wouldnt it?
It may be hard at first but by the time both parties decide to get together, they SHOULD BE ready to SHARE their lives and CHANGE it so that it can fit two ppl, NOT ONE. .
It's because before getting together, there is AMPLE TIME for courtship where both parties get to know one another better. .


So, there is close to no excuse to not open ur life to ur partner. .
and. .
Make two hearts beat as one. .
Then, that would be not only ur heaven but BOTH of ur heaven ~


lotsa love from mskimmy. .
.x.o.