Turn Back Time. . ?

Have u ever had any regrets in life?
Done something wrong and told urself "I shouldn't have done that" ??

Have u ever wished of building a time machine so u could just go back into the past??
Go back so that u would have another go at it?
Or do something bout it?
Or not do that "something" u regret doing?

I'm sure all of us have our own regrets. .
I personally have plenty. .
Many of which I have no control over. .
Some which I have control over if I did assert control over it, which due to my personality, I let it be and didn't do anything about it. . .

So, what do we do when we have regrets?
It haunts us deeply. .
It haunts us almost everytime. .
Honestly, I have no idea. .
A friend of mine told me "just let it be and see whether the river takes u to"
Well, I've been doing that. .
So, what now??


xo-s

Why Are Hugs Comforting?

You know those times when u're just so down that u don't feel like doing anything at all?
Times when u've just got so much on ur mind but u can't tell anybody?
Times when u just sit, stare blankly at the ceiling and tears just fall down like that?
Times when u want to just hide under the blanket and escape from the world?
Times when u scream into ur pillow so that nobody would hear u?
Times when u feel like u want to be alone . . .
Just for a moment. .
BUT. .

someone offers u a hug. .
suddenly, u just let it all out. .
cry ur heart out even though no words have been spoken. .
just holding on so tightly and u've no idea what's running through ur mind at that moment. .
the "hugger" pats u on the back or head and tries to either comfort u or just be there for u. .
THEN. .
u'll just stop crying whether after an hour, half an hour, or just a couple of minutes. .

The next thing u know, u'll feel so much better. .
WHY ARE HUGS COMFORTING?
Is it because we feel that there is someone out there that cares for us?
or someone out there who will want to be there for us?
or just because there is just someone who is there at that moment and is concerned bout us?

Well, let's try a different scenario. .
Sometimes when we're just sooo down, we tend to hug a bolster or maybe a teddy bear. .
Just hug it sooo tightly. .
cry. .
or maybe fall asleep while crying. .

Owh wait. . hugs are even comforting when we're nervous or scared. .
Well, I'm not sure if its a general thing but I hug stuff when I'm scared. .
Like when I watch horror movies, I hug pillows and whoever that is sitting beside me (my friend that is. . ><)
Just grab onto an arm and hide behind it somehow. .
I dont know but somehow it's kind of a natural reaction to me. .
Even when I'm nervous. .
For example, I'll hug my bag or my book when I'm waiting outside the exam hall. .
Thoughts of "oh no" and "oh shit" keeps running through my mind. .

PHEW. .

ehem. .
soooo. .
WHY ARE HUGS COMFORTING?
Go figure. .


♥~ ♥ ~ ♥

Can two hearts beat as one. . ?

Everyday, ppl get together or/and break up. .
We tend to ask. . .
"Can two hearts beat as one?"

When I see a couple both say "I do", I always think to myself. .
"What made them so sure?"
Is it just a feeling?
Well, feelings can change over time aye. .
Is it because of love?
Love is not forever tooo. .

I may be a pessimist but hey, that's life!!
Life can be a big B !
One can say I love u "forever". .
But what happens when their "forever" is over?
There would be more broken-hearted ppl in this world, aye. .?

Soooooooooo, can ppl really compromise with each other and understand each other inside out?
I'm sure after hanging out a lot and being in a long relationship, ppl would know their partner's habits, how they do stuff, and how they think. .

BUT. .
Both partners have been brought up in a different way. .
Both partners have things they like when the other doesn't
Both partners have own views and sometimes it's against the view of the other. .
Both partners had different ways of living their life before they decided to get together. .

So, can both parties really compromise?
Are both parties really willing to share their lives with one another?

Personally, I think it's imperative that both parties incorporate the life of two into one. .
If they think that "hey. . that's the way I've lived so don't come into my life and change it". .
Then, they're not ready to open their life to their partner. .

Why be in a relationship when u're not willing to make two lives into one?
It's just going to be a selfish relationship, wouldnt it?
It may be hard at first but by the time both parties decide to get together, they SHOULD BE ready to SHARE their lives and CHANGE it so that it can fit two ppl, NOT ONE. .
It's because before getting together, there is AMPLE TIME for courtship where both parties get to know one another better. .


So, there is close to no excuse to not open ur life to ur partner. .
and. .
Make two hearts beat as one. .
Then, that would be not only ur heaven but BOTH of ur heaven ~


lotsa love from mskimmy. .
.x.o.

Cherish?

Making a decision in life is never easy. .
Sometimes when u think too long about it, u might just overthink it. .
Sometimes when u think too little about it, it might have been a rash decision. .
So, how would we know that the decisions we make are the right ones?

Personally, I'm a really bad decision maker. .
I'm really indecisive and I think I'm an emotional decision maker. .
It's always the feelings that influence my decision. .
Also, it's the people. .
Sometimes I decide such to make others happy. .
However, it really depends what sort of decision it is. .
If it's about big stuff like a group assignment or such, I become rather dominating and I suddennly can make decisions. .

But if it's about my life, then. . there's a huge problem. .
In the past, I've made many wrong decisions. .
Sometimes once the decision is made, it's too late to turn back. .
We always wonder where the road we didn't choose will lead us to. .

I've made rather big decisions. .
But. . I can't confirm whether it's been highly influenced or not. .
Sometimes I wish u'll be more sensitive. .
I just feel that sometimes when ppl get what they want, they forget how hard they've worked to get it and just slack off at their achievement. .
Slowly, a gap is formed. . And if the person doesn't realize it sooner, the gap will slowly and slowly grow wider. .
Their achievement will just sit in pain. Whether material items or just anything. .

Why do people forget what they promised themselves to do. .
Why do people treat something they finally get, worse ??
Like a puppy, first, they smother the puppy with love and spend hours with it.
Months later, u'll see the puppy running around, playing alone in the garden while the owner carries on with his or her life. .

Why can't people see that once they get something they've worked so hard for, they shouldn't be overjoyed til' they forget the importance and existence of it. .

People get thrilled by desires. .
But the thrill slowly wears off after they feel they've made an achivement to obtain the desired. .
There is no break in life and nothing lasts forever. .


One day we might all just wake up and realize the people and things we've been taking for granted. .
Or maybe just realize the "wrong things" we've done that we've always thought was right. .


life goes on
. x.o .