It's a shame to me. . but, it's a sin to u. .

Let me tell u a story. . .

A long long long long time ago. .
There was this little girl whom never cared about the world and only knew she has 2 pairs of grandparents, 1 father, 1 mother, 1 sister, and 1 brother. .
Well, she did know she had extended family members such as uncles, aunts, and cousins. .
Not the more complex ones like her mum's cousins's daughter's son and all that messy chains of relationship. .
So, she never knew she had relatives such as "granduncles" and "grandaunts". .
Well. . over at her father's side, she had supposedly granduncles and grandaunts. .

Kids never do remember ppl unless the ppl they've met before are significant to them.
As we all know, significance to a kid is such that the person is fun to play with or the person gives us presents, sweets and chocolates. .
Kids are that simple-minded. .

Anyway, back to the story. .
As a kid, she never went back to visit her dad's side of the family as her step grandma refused to carry her elder sis and bro when they were babies. . Hence, the girl's mum did not want to go back to visit on festival seasons anymore. .
Hence, the girl nor her siblings were ever carried by their step grandma. .
So anyway, as she never visited her dad's hometown til she was much older, she never knew her relatives there much except those that has put in effort to come visit as she was young. .
Well, she has very fond memories of her granduncle and grandaunt that came to visit her as a baby and even as she was growing up. .
She remembers that big (for a young kid), white teddy bear with red paws and nose that they gave to her when she was very young. .
They cared for her and her family and often takes the initiative to come down to visit whenever they can. .
That's why she can remember them and have attached feelings towards them despite never ever visiting her dad's hometown. .

Many years later, the family decided to visit her dad's hometown for a festival season. .
That was the first year she was exposed to many new faces. .
Many relatives she never ever knew she had. .
But, as the exposure was late, she didn't have much feelings attached to them. . Just that respect. .
And she never fails to smile or try to communicate to them. .
However, she was overjoyed when she met that granduncle and grandaunt that often visited her for years. .
It then became a routine to always visit that granduncle and grandaunt at least twice in the period of time they visited her dad's hometown. .
That carried on for years.. .

Many many many weeks ago, her granduncle fell down and cracked his hip bone. .
His children refused to send him to the hospital and insisted to give him HOME therapeutic massage. .
Even though it hurt like hell, he kept quiet and tried his best to stand the pain juse to please them. .
Suddenly, he fell again and this time he was admitted into a hospital. .
The doctors diagnosed a cracked hip bone and he had to stay in the hospital for a bit. .
Btw, he needed to undergo dialysis as well (had to for a year plus already)
So, to cut the story shorter. .
His condition deteriorated and he was weak as he couldn't eat much and all that, hence not being able to complete his dialysis sessions. .
His condition wasn't bad actually but his youngest daughter always insisted to send him home so he could die at home. .
Excuse me, he wasn't even near death. . He was far far far from it. .
Anyway, all his other useless children never stood for their father and let the dumbass daughter brainwash them with her psycho way. .
I personally diagnosed she has schizophrenia due to her having delusions. . (who knows this psychology student might just be right). .
So, they discharged him when they shouldn't have. .
He went home. . and a few hours later, his BP raised to 200 and was quickly re-admitted into another hospital as his crazy daughter didn't want him to be admitted into the previous hospital. .
WRONG MOVE DUMBASS!
The new hospital doesn't have a dialysis room. . OMG!! NO BRAINS. .
Then, he was still okay at first. .
a few days later, he had a mild stroke. .
During that period of time, she kept brainwashing her siblings and her mum. .
Even her eldest sister did not utilize her power to make decisions for her dad and just sat at the corner. .
Luckily, he woke up again. .
However, the fighting among family members continued and they all became pessimistic. .
They all gave up on him one by one. .
No hospitals in that town wanted to accept him for dialysis. .
It wasn't his fault. .
His children made big mistakes. . .
Nevertheless, he wasn't near death at all. .
They just couldn't see it that way. .
From what I see, it seemed that the youngest daughter wanted him dead!
She even booked to go on a holiday next month. .
That only means she wanted him dead. .
It's because if they wanted him to recover, it's a long process as they need to think of alternatives and look into sending him to other hospitals. .
It was possible to send him to other hospitals but they turned down help from their other relatives. .
They gave up on him. .
Everybody told them that he still had life!
It was darn obvious he was fighting for his life. .
Others were so concerned over it and told them not to give up. .
Motivated them. .
His youngest daughter seemed like she wanted him dead. .
His wife didn't seem to care anymore. .
His other children were demotivated and brainwashed til they didn't wanna continue fighting. .
The only ppl fighting was himself and other relatives. .
How can that be?

He fought and fought and fought. .
On the 21st November 2010, his family discharged him becauyse they didn't want to help him til' the point he deteriorated quickly. .
He had no sicknesses. .
He was just in a mild coma and couldnt' speak for himself but he kept fighting to have lasted so long. .
On the 22nd November 2010, 10 am. . He passed away in front of his dumbass daughter, his stupid daughter-in-law (she added lots of crap to demotivate them and she seemed like she wanted him dead as well), and his useless grandson. .

That girl was sad. .
On the 21st of November, she thought of him after hearing the news that he deteriorated so much and he will probably "go" soon. .
She had a bad day . .
She cried and cried and cried just thinking about it. .
However, on the 22nd of November, when she heard the news that he has passed away, she never shed any tears at all. .
She can't believe it. .
How can his own children and wife let go of him. .
And come on, he died because of????
No major illness, no major complications. .
It's cause he gave up loooking at how his children treat him. .

BTW. .
That girl is me. .
I will never ever forget my granduncle. .
I will never forgive what they've done to him. .
As distant relatives, my family and I have no say and no power to make decisions on his behalf. .
We gave them many great workable ideas. .
My parents went back to stop his children from killing him by trying to knock some sense into them. .
Well, it worked for a little while but still. .
That's what they decided in the end. .
We all know he can be saved. .
We guaranteed them that. .
They had nothign to lose. .
Nothing at all. .
But, all together, they decided to let him go. .
Why?
For his money?
I don't know. .
I don't want to know. .
What I know now is that they're inhumane. .
I've lost my dear dear granduncle. .
Just like that. .
I will never forgive them. .

It's a shame they let him go. .
It's a shame they gave up. .
It's a shame he has such children. .

But it's a sin to them. .
A BIG BIG SIN to let him go. .
They all knew he can live at least another good 8 years. .
WHY?
Now, this will haunt them for the rest of their lives and. .
Karma will bite them where it hurts most. .


That's the end of my story. .
Sorry there isn't any happy ending to it..


No one has the right to decide on someone's life or death. .
May my granduncle rest in peace. .

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